The Little Moments
I adopted the phrase, “collect moments, not things” as my mantra to seek out once-in-a-lifetime adventures and opportunities. It became a guiding light when making decisions about things like what to do with my life or whether or not I really need another pair of sandals. Life on the road at a different campus, in a different state, where I have to adjust to a different time zone and climate every week has proved to me that moments and experiences are invaluable. That guiding phrase has not only proven to be truer than ever, but its meaning has also evolved. For me, “collect moments” has become the most important part of that quote. As a road warrior, I’ve learned that collecting the little moments in my everyday life is what ultimately ties together this entire journey because it’s the little moments that have made my experience on the road truly beautiful.
The little moments are what have kept me smiling each day whether I’m alone on an airplane or surrounded by a group of sisters, uncontrollably laughing after a fourteen-hour recruitment day. It’s being able to enjoy my morning coffee at the beach in California and experiencing life after a New York blizzard that very same night. It’s the pure excitement I’ve felt in the moment when a chapter welcomes home eighty new members into their sisterhood. It’s the warm fuzzy feeling in a hug from a collegian I’ve only worked with for a week, but feel like I’ve known for a lifetime. These are the moments in which I have found happiness.
Sometimes it has been the bittersweet moments that I’ve appreciated too, like when a visit has come to an end. It’s creating a special memory when my consultant sister and I can only laugh after enduring a three-hour cab line, as our toes turned numb. It’s also that sad, aching feeling when saying goodbye and realizing these could be some of the last moments I spend with sisters I’ve grown so close to in such a short period of time.
Being a chapter consultant has given me countless treasures in the form of moments with people I would have never met otherwise. I’m taken by surprise when I realize that the only reason my path has crossed with strangers, who have turned into some of my most genuine friends, is because I have the privilege of working for Alpha Chi Omega. It’s the daily encouragement from friends who live hundreds of miles away that has taught me to appreciate every little kindness.
The little moments strung together; the collection of people, places, relationships and emotions make up an experience of a lifetime. The moments I have collected as a chapter consultant are invaluable and are something I try to reflect on every day. I could go on naming these small moments as proof of my precious experience, but instead I’ll say it again, “collect moments, not things.” Because it is being able to appreciate every moment – little or big, happy or sad – that will make your life full and any common moment beautiful.