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How Our Sisters Celebrate

MacDowell1Happy MacDowell Month!

February is the time of year that Alpha Chis celebrate the arts. Our heritage is deeply connected to the arts: our seven founders were all musicians and our first philanthropic project was supporting the MacDowell Colony.

We wondered: how are our sisters celebrating MacDowell Month?

Here are some of the responses we got from collegiate and alumnae members:

The Nashville Alumnae Chapter will be hosting a craft day with Zeta Omicron!
Bridget Gorta, Epsilon Phi

Studying Art Education at Missouri State University! Also plan on visiting Crystal Bridges in Arkansas on Valentine’s Day.
Erin O’Sullivan, Zeta Sigma

I’ve got 2 little girls starting rehearsals for The Ugly Duckling ballet. And I’m starting to learn how to paint.
Karen Carter, Zeta Nu

Off to the Metropolitan Opera next week! We will be attending two performances at The Metropolitan Opera: Iolanta / Bluebeard’s Castle (double bill) and Don Giovanni!
Susan Esco Chandler and Susan Chandler, Psi

The Tulsa alumnae club is touring the downtown Brady Arts District and eating Mediterranean together on Saturday.
Bethany Wood, Gamma Epsilon

AXO UCLA at the LA County Museum of Art

AXO UCLA at the LAC Museum of Art

The Alpha Omega Alpha Alumnae chapter is hosting a Painting with a Twist sisterhood event!
Kelly Cardova, Zeta Rho

I’m taking a painting class!
Jacilyn Kennedy, Gamma Tau

The OKC Rho Rho Alumnae Chapter will celebrate MacDowell Month at the Oklahoma Art Museum. We will be having drinks and appetizers at the cafe and enjoying their “Fakes & Forgeries in the Art World” exhibit!
Samara Terrill, Gamma Tau

 I will be volunteering and attending “A Needlepoint Love Story: Chapter 2” at Fort Worth’s Thistle Hill Mansion (February 25 – March 1).
Christine Borand, Zeta Nu

On our Facebook page, virtual chapter Pi Omega Pi has been listing something weekly pertaining to appreciation of the fine arts, such as: a link to lyre music or artwork featuring lyres, carnations etc., along with something about the artists of each piece.
Carol Lutz, Epsilon Chi

…and Lee Anne Romberg White of Tau chapter is doing a special project:
I have decided to celebrate MacDowell Month by sharing the work of women artists through posts on facebook, twitter, tumblr and Pinterest. Please feel free to follow along and to share your own work with me @leeannewhite.MacDowell3

It doesn’t stop there; you can view some great photos of sisters painting, at concerts or at the theatre on Instagram.

Whatever you decided to do, we hope you had fun celebrating our artistic heritage and MacDowell Month!

Loyally, The Ritual Specialist Team


Global Service: Day 5 – I Was Enthralled

by Trace White
(Gamma Epsilon – Oklahoma State University)

The following is the tenth in a series about Alpha Chi Omega’s inaugural global service trip in Negril, Jamaica.

While today was not a work day, I still learned as much if not more than I have the other days here in Jamaica. I’ll start with the knowledge of today being a day off or working to see more of Jamaica and visit a crocodile filled river for the Black River Safari in the pretty town named after the river it is near. As can be expected, I was excited to visit another area of Jamaica I had yet to see and did not know exactly what to expect. What I was not expecting was a two hour road trip to get to this so-called Black river. This information must have failed to reach my ears or something of sort… Luckily, as with all the highs and lows our group has had this week, our group took it in stride and passed the time in whatever ways we could find. Haley and Kendra played trivia about the TV show Friends, which I am sadly not informed enough about to have joined in on, but I am pretty positive Haley and Kendra’s score was 30 out of 32. Impressive.

ready for the safariOn our arrival we got to experience a common Jamaican trait, not being in a rush and being late. I could fit in REALLY well here (I was the last to load the bus this morning and it was definitely not the first time). A few minutes past noon and we were on our way along the Black River with our funny driver Nico. Now, Nico was not a normal tour guide, he declared himself one of three who drove the boats along the river that actually touched the crocodiles and the only one of them that would KISS the crocodiles.

Although we did not have a cooperative crocodile for Nico to kiss, we were able to watch Nico take the crocodile under the chin by hand. I am fortunate to say that I have seen some really wonderful things in my life, but seeing Nico with the crocodile was seriously exciting for me. It felt similar to something you only see on Animal Planet and yet I was up close and personal. Much too soon, we were headed back. On the way, I began to feel a spray from the river which progressively got worse. Come to find out it’s not the river at all, it had begun to rain. Next thing I know it as an absolute downpour and we are lucky enough to be on boat without walls… Of course I am running about looking for a place to get out of the rain. Well, as you can imagine that was not exactly possible.

A good six of the girls were huddled together for protection, some were taking it as it came, others were laughing and taking pictures maybe running around like me, and Nico was just laughing at our ridiculous commotion. Naturally, the roof rips apart… not once, but twice. Yes, this really happened to us. Don’t worry though, eventually we made it back safe and sound with smiles on our faces. This group truly knows how to turn something potentially problematic into something to laugh about and proceeded to lunch at Cloggy’s down the street completely soaked but happy and ate a really wonderful lunch! Overall, the trip was absolutely worth the four hour round trip. I would not have traded it for anything.

I know this might floor you but I have not even gotten to my favorite part of the day. Around 5:30 we have two visitors, Amina and Henry who drive a whole four hours from Kingston just for us. Amina Blackwood Meeks began by explaining that she was the Director of Culture Education and a storyteller (among many other things). This is something I really don’t hear very often. A storyteller? Only five minutes later, and I knew what she was talking about. This woman knows how to tell a story.

It is not only how she told the stories and answered all our questions, it was how she tied her information together and could always bring whatever she said full circle. She commands her audience whether it is through the warm sunshine in her voice, her abounding knowledge, or her robust laugh that forces you to smile. She wanted us to really understand the culture here, who the people are, and why they are that way. Something that stuck out to me was when she described how different Jamaica can be month to month, season to season but that food and music are absolutely critical to this country. This can be heard in the reggae music blasting all over the country and the multiple radio stations here on this one island. This can be seen and tasted in the jerk chicken and pork, the fresh mangos, the curry chicken with rice, and the hard work put in by those making it. Although well known for their jerk chicken and pork, the food in Jamaica can be really diverse, but, as Amina put it, food is where all the different kinds of people and races in Jamaica combine and come together.

As a history major, I was enthralled by all she had to say. She told our group so much about the coming of the African people to Jamaica and the Taino people who had inhabited the island prior to Columbus’ arrival. With her beautiful storytelling she told us the story of Anansi, a spider who despite his size was able to capture the huge, powerful snake to take to the king of the forest, the tiger. She explained how this African way of telling stories was still very important to the Jamaican people and how they tell their stories. There is so much more to tell as she talked to us for an hour and half with my group asking question after question and hoping for more stories, but it really isn’t something you can describe in words, it is something you just have to experience.

trace and aminaAfter her talk I got lucky enough to sit with her at dinner along with Stephanie, Amanda and Ally. Hopefully she had a chance to eat because I am fairly sure we had questions for her all throughout dinner. She was happy to answer and taught me even more about Jamaica. Amina told me a story about when she moved away from Kingston. Living in a place 3 miles from any neighbors, she had to pass through a village to get home. This village contains maybe 200 people and they are very poor without electricity and running water. Amina said “I wondered how I could help them because they are so poor, but then I saw that they were happy.”

She proceeded to tell us how when she would pass through on the way home they would be waiting to give her pounds of tomatoes and whatever fruits or vegetables they noticed she did not have or grow. This put a lot of situations here and in the United States into perspective for me, and I thank Amina for all the insight she gave whether she knows it or not. Amina Blackwood Meeks is one of the most fascinating people I’ve ever had the pleasure to meet. Her work in the country is so important to the progress of Jamaica while retaining what makes Jamaica the place that it is. She wanted to teach us, she wanted to share and I am truly blessed to have been on the receiving end.

It is such an experience to be here. The people are so appreciative of the work we are doing and so lovely to get to know. I am so excited to get back to the work site tomorrow to lay tile, build desks and tables, and really get the school together! As I have mentioned before, I am truly blessed.


The Consultant Chronicles: Change

July 29th Photoshoot 128by Rachel LeGrand
(Gamma Epsilon, Oklahoma State University)

Change is not fun. Change is not comfortable. Change forces us out of our nice pretty bubble and into a world of uncertainty. Change is scary. However, change is inevitable. Nothing will ever stop changing no matter how much you drag your feet or run kicking and screaming in the opposite direction. Believe me I have tried.

During my time as a collegiate woman of Gamma Epsilon at Oklahoma State University my chapter went through many changes. It was hard work. I cried and I yelled. I won’t lie I almost gave up a few times but in the end it was worth it. My chapter wouldn’t be where it is today and I would not have learned the leadership skills I now use every day. Without that experience within Alpha Chi Omega I would not have been challenged to grow and mature into the woman I am today. I owe my chapter and my Gamma Epsilon sisters so much. They mean the world to me and I do not go a day without thinking about them and how they have enriched my life. 

I am not someone who deals well with change. I had a hard time adjusting to life after college. Nothing was going to be the same again and I scrambled to hold on to the last shreds of what I thought to be normality. After trying my best to avoid this change I realized I was simply holding myself back. The opportunities and experiences that would change me for the better were not available to me because of my resistance.

I now recognize that I will continue to change for the rest of my life. The change I have seen in myself over the past six months astounds me. This job has taught me skills I never knew I could learn and has opened my eyes to the vast opportunity for personal development.  I see changes in myself after every single chapter I visit on the road, and I appreciate each individual I have met for giving me so much. And like the lyrics of my favorite Wicked song of all time,

“Because I knew you, I have been changed for good.”

 Being a traveling consultant has been one of the most amazing changing experiences of my life. It has given me the strength and confidence I will need to manage the changes I will be faced with as I inevitably grow up.

During traveling I love listening to music. On my long flight between Oklahoma and Oregon I was enjoying my newest iTunes purchase, Taylor Swift’s new album, Speak Now.  “Never Grow Up” is one of my favorite songs on the album and it really hits home for me in a lot of ways.  In the song Taylor talks about the warm, feel good stuff that comes with being young and how she wishes she had never grown up.  Two lines in particular resounded for me:  

“Don’t lose the way that you dance around in your PJs getting ready for school.”
“Wish I’d never grown up, it could still be simple.”

I agree that we should “never grow up” by not taking ourselves too seriously and seeing the beauty even in the common things of life, like dancing around in your PJs. However we need to acknowledge and accept when it is time to grow up and change. How boring would life be if everything stayed simple?

What if our founders would have resisted change? What if they had decided to keep their lives simple? Starting a brand new women’s fraternity is not a simple undertaking. Our founders embraced change and were courageous enough to take that first step to create what we now enjoy as Alpha Chi Omega.  It was not easy, pretty, or comfortable. They had to work hard and overcome many challenges, but they did not quit or settle for mediocrity. As a real, strong woman of Alpha Chi Omega, personal development is one of our standards of membership which I feel is undervalued. What kind of example are we setting for our children, new members, and the people we encounter on a daily basis if we are not holding ourselves to this standard? By not changing we are discontinuing our personal development.

We have the power to become extraordinary.  We can embrace the necessary changes required to better ourselves, our families, our jobs, our community and Alpha Chi Omega. Together we can seek the heights.

“Those who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, usually do.” 

Why do we refuse to give in to change? Are we afraid of failure? Are we too lazy? Are we content with the status quo? Is it ok to be mediocre? These are the questions I try to challenge myself with on a daily basis. We need to change our attitudes about change.

Change is not fun. Change is not comfortable. Change is scary. Change forces us out of our nice pretty bubble and into a world of uncertainty.

Change is exciting. Change is good. Change is positive. Change will make us better Alpha Chi Omegas but more importantly it will make us real, strong women.