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Here’s to Our Year Together

Ellie EdwardsBy Ellie Edwards
ΖΣ (Missouri State University)
Nationwide Chapter Consultant

Monday, June 27, 2016—the day 18 Alpha Chi Omega sisters from every corner of the country arrived in Indianapolis to begin five weeks of chapter consultant training. Some of us were returning, some of us were fresh out of college and all of us were ready and excited for this journey.

Jump ahead to the next day, June 28, which was our first day in the office and our first time together as a team. We began the day with everyone taking turns sharing a little bit about themselves, and I could hardly contain my excitement knowing that these simple introductions would soon turn into uncontrollable laughter, unforgettable moments and incomparable friendships.

These moments and friendships grew quickly and deeply in the following weeks. We did just about everything together. We drove to and from work together. We learned anything and everything about Alpha Chi Omega together. We went through tough simulations together. We practiced facilitation skills together. We ate a lot of ice cream together. We did post-lunch yoga together. Literally anything fun, new or challenging you could pack into a five-week training course, we did…together.

Fast forward two months to now, and we are already finishing up our first month on the road. We are sharing our knowledge and love for Alpha Chi Omega with sisters across the country; those tough simulations are situations we deal with daily; we facilitate a wide range of workshops; and we encounter a lot of fun, new and challenging experiences, just like we did during training in Indianapolis. Except now, we are not physically together. Some of us have been lucky enough to have a visit with a staff member or another consultant sister, but the majority of our team members are in different states and taking on each workday in a new city by ourselves.

This might sound sad at first, and believe me, I can’t wait for when we are all together again in December. But the cool thing about our team is that even though we are scattered across the country, we are all experiencing similar situations, and we understand what each other is going through. We may not live down the road from one another anymore, but when you have a team of 18 sisters who can instantly relate to you, will talk you through a challenge over the phone and will celebrate even your smallest wins (by emailing you pictures of puppies, of course), the number of states and connecting flights between us is almost insignificant.

A past consultant recently told me that this is what makes the friendships between consultants so special and so strong—the fact that they are based in being apart. We grow so close during training, and then we are apart more than we are together for the remainder of the year. However, we are able to create the feeling of being together without physically being side by side.

So, my friends, here’s to a year of learning experiences, challenges, delayed flights, GroupMe messages, a lot of ice cream and endless joy. Let’s do this…together.

Follow along on our Thursday blog posts to hear more about what our consultant team experiences together this year.  If being a consultant sounds excited to you, visit our “Becoming a Consultant” page to learn more about the job.  Check back in later this month for our application link to go live!

One Comment

  1. June Wilson |

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and love of Alpha Chi Omega with us!!